Last month me
and my step mother had a fight about why she didn’t want me to go to Las
Fiestas de la Calle San Sebastian. She started to tell me I wasn’t mature
enough to say no to drugs and to alcohol, so I answered that if I wasn’t mature
enough to make my own decisions I would already be into that kind of stuff. She
obviously doesn’t trust her children or me or my brothers and gets bad stuff
into my dad’s head. My dad then listens to all the bullshit she says and tells
me that I would not go to the event. After I had gone for the past 2 years he
expected me not to go this year, so the week before Las Calles I left my house
and stayed with my aunt and she took me to Las Calles without my step mother or
dad knowing. My stepmother has a huge problem and that is trust issues, her
oldest son is 14 years old and she doesn’t let him go to Plaza Las Americas if
she is not there, he can’t go to the movies with his friends if she’s not
there. Therefore my stepbrother is kind of retarded, he has never gone out with
his friends because he prefers not to go out if she will be stalking him. I
hate my step mother so much you don’t have any idea we actually fight everyday
possible. Therefore every time I see her I just turn my back away and don’t
even say hello because we will fight.
This is my first comment to your posts, and it is very difficult for me to comment on them because this is a hard situation you are in. my best advice is to just try to avoid confrontations. fighting will make things worst and life hell. You should talk to your dad in a very calm and respectful manner and tell him how you feel. I am sure that if your conversation is mature and with respect he will listen to you.
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